Money & Belonging...
Shift Your Relationship with Money at the Nervous System Level...
When managing money feels like a threat in your nervous system, no amount of money will ever feel like enough.
Un-shame the financial chaos so you stop sabotaging your success.
Love & Money...
Shift Your Relationship with Money at the Nervous System Level...
When managing money feels like a threat in your nervous system, no amount of money will ever feel like enough.
Un-shame the financial chaos so you stop sabotaging your success.
Why No Amount of Money Healed My Money Issues...And What Finally Did
Let's UNSHAME our money stories...
I’ve always been highly functioning—a strong earner, ambitious, creatively driven. From the outside, I looked successful. Inside, my financial life was chaotic. I avoided my accounts, let bills pile up, and toggled between compulsive shopping and anxiety about spending. I once lost a $7,000 client check in a pile of unopened mail and discovered it a year and a half later—too late to cash.
I was stuck in cycles of proving my worth, success, self-sabotage, and trying to out-earn the discomfort I felt around making, tracking, and managing money. I did what capable people do: I sought help. Financial advisors. Spiritual money coaches. Budgeting experts. Business coaches. Mentors. Even a twelve-step program for debt and compulsive spending. Some helped. Many didn’t.
For me, practical money tools created overwhelm. I responded with avoidance, more compulsive spending, and an inability to focus or follow through. Even when the tools worked, they didn't stick. Being neurodivergent only amplified the internal noise.
One moment clarified the real problem. A financial advisor leaned across the table and said, “Money is just numbers. What’s the big deal?” Instantly, my chest flooded with heat and shame. My stomach dropped. My body locked up. My nervous system went into a FLIGHT response. I barely made it through the meeting.
Some years later, I stepped away from my career as a C-level branding executive. Searching for deeper fulfillment, I trained as a trauma-informed somatic practitioner and nervous system educator. That’s when it clicked.
Here’s what I know now:
Money is not just numbers. Money is survival. Money is perceived worth. Money is deeply emotional.
And money problems—overworking, debt, under-earning, chaos, compulsive spending, lack of savings, or completely outsourcing your financial life to a business manager—don’t resolve at the surface. They live in the nervous system.
I Wasn't Bad With Money.
I Had Money Trauma.
My Nervous System Was Stuck in a Survival Pattern.
It’s Okay to Have Money Problems
Wherever you are in your money journey, you are enough.
Nothing about your money problems is too messy to be lessened. I promise. Simply acknowledging the need for support is already a turning point.
“Bad” money habits don’t persist because you lack discipline or intelligence. They persist because your nervous system learned that managing money wasn't safe.
You’re not bad.
You’re not broken.
And it’s safe to finally look at what's beneath the surface.
Money trauma doesn’t heal through pressure or shame. It heals when safety is restored in your nervous system.
From there, practical skills finally become usable—and freedom, clarity, joy, and sustainable abundance stop feeling out of reach.
Three Shifts That Rewire Your Relationship With Money...
Safety Replaces Panic
Before:
Money decisions sent me into anxiety, impulse, or shutdown. I spent down to zero every month, even though I earned well.
After:
I meet money from a grounded place. I make large purchases calmly and no longer shop compulsively.
Confidence Replaces Shame
Before:
I kept secrets about money, even from myself. I shrank when people talked about being a responsible adult.
After:
I'm steady with money. I earn in aligned ways, stand in my value, and don’t brace against success.
Clarity Replaces Avoidance
Before:
I avoided balances, mail, and basic money systems. I paid late fees despite having the money.
After:
Money feels safe now. I check balances, pay bills, and meet debt, investing and taxes without threat.
As Safety Returns to The Body, Clients Naturally Begin To...
Track accounts and bills with ease
Make financial decisions without spiraling
Spend on the things you love without guilt or compulsivity
Earn well without overworking
Rest without anxiety and self-judgement
Feel pleasure, curiosity, and creative clarity
Learn how to ask for what you are worth
Increase your income, while reducing burnout
Do good things with their money
Money & Belonging
...is a six month one-to-one process to heal your relationship with money at the nervous system level.
This work combines nervous system education, somatic (mind-body) processing, and practical tools to reduce money-related shame and anxiety, restore inner capacity, and support calm, confident financial decision-making.
Why this is different...
Most money coaching and financial therapy focus on mindset or behavior. Love & Money addresses the nervous system patterns beneath financial stress and trauma—so clarity, confidence, and creativity emerge without force.
What's Inculded...
12 bi-weekly 55 minute zoom sessions over a period of 6 months
8 self-paced education modules with somatic exercises
Text support Monday-Friday between sessions (a support system in your back-pocket)
FREE 3 month membership to YNAB (money tracking software)
What We'll Cover...
Creating a sense of safety in the body
Nervous system regulation, capacity, and flexibility
Visualization and somatic processing
Easeful tracking of money and financial habits using YNAB
How to create liberated livelihood
Making money & career moves with clarity & consistency
Integrating this work into your life so success becomes sustainable
What's NOT included...
Shame or judgement
Rigid tools, frameworks, or expectations
Financial planning beyond the tools required for clarity
Investment advice
Retirement planning or debt management
Program Modules...
Module 1: Safety as a Foundation
Creating regulation, trust, and capacity in the body
Module 2: Clearing the Inner Terrain
Uncovering inherited beliefs, patterns, and money triggers
Module 3: Tracking Dollars, Tracking Feelings
Tracking, awareness, and honest relationship with your numbers
How to use YNAB for effortless financial tracking and planning
Module 4: Devotion Over Force
Redefining discipline through flexible planning
Module 5: Vision You Can Live Inside
Designing an inspired, achievable future
Module 6: The Power of Small Wins
How consistent, incremental actions create lasting change
Module 7: No One Builds Alone
Creating your personal board of advisors and support system
Module 8: Liberated Livelihood
Balancing authenticity and sustainable earning
This is for you if...
You feel anxious, ashamed, or overwhelmed about money despite being capable
You over-spend, over-work, have IRS or credit card debt, avoid checking account balances or paying bills
Struggle with asking for money, valuing your worth, or negotiating wages
You’ve engaged in therapy or spiritual practice, but it hasn't touched your fears around money
You want to grow your business or career
You keep sabotaging your success
This is not for you if...
You’re looking for conventional financial strategies or investment advice
You want fast results without addressing the emotional or nervous system roots
You prefer mindset work and want to "figure it out" with the same mind that created the problem
You’re not interested in examining how culture, identity, and access shape money experiences
You think financial health is only about discipline & numbers
You aren't concerned with systemic inequity or cultural conditioning
What Clients Are Saying...
"I can not express enough how wonderful the whole experience was. Danielle's ability to hold the space, nudge you gently forward when needed and guide you on a healing journey is a gift to appreciate. The transformation I found still remains vivid. Her work will have a ripple effect through the world." -Kim K.
"The work I’ve done with Dani has allowed me to see things I never saw, to feel things I was unable to feel and process before, and to find a deeper place within myself of strength, resilience, and the power to do anything I chose to do...Doing somatic exercises and healing with Dani has been transformational for me. I’m a meditation teacher and executive coach, retired professor and TEDx speaker. I also practice yoga, Reiki, and countless other modalities. So I’m no stranger to deep work on myself. I feel far less encumbered by my old stories and the ways I block my own success and awakening. I can never thank you enough, Dani". - Bridget S.
"Danielle is a nervous system whisperer! She has such great sensibility to pick you up, right where you are at, to get you into your body, leading you through your deepest layers, with upmost respect. Not only are you left with tools to find this state of inner calm & safety again & again, but also feeling like a huge invisible pressure has finally found it’s way through & out of your body, in a gentle yet powerful way. So much gratitude. Michèle". -Michéle F.
A Little More About Me...
Hi, I'm Danielle!
I’m an ex C-level branding executive turned certified trauma-informed somatic practitioner, nervous system educator, and behavioral coach. I specialize in money trauma and somatic shadow work, blending nervous system education and (mind-body) processes with practical behavioral change.
For years, I looked successful on the outside—strategic, capable, financially successful. On the inside, I was overwhelmed. I had learned to override my body, my instincts, and my needs in order to keep up with the pace of my life.
I had a secret. My financial life was in chaos.
Even with a solid income, I avoided my finances. That avoidance showed up as overdraft fees, credit card and IRS debt, a terrible credit score, and shopping as relief—alongside a constant fear of not having enough.
I was driven toward success AND unconsciously afraid of it.
Not because I lacked discipline or intelligence, but because my nervous system didn’t feel safe.
When I connected money to nervous system regulation, everything shifted. My money habits stopped being a mindset problem—and became trauma I could heal through somatic processing.
That’s the work I do now: helping ambitious, creative humans heal their relationship with money & work at the nervous system level, so their capacity, income, and self-trust can finally align.
Investment and Next Steps...
This is an investment in nervous system safety, financial self-trust, and a new relationship with money—one that supports clarity, ease, and sustainable growth rather than pressure or self-correction.
This container includes 12 private one-to-one sessions over six months, self-paced education, plus Monday–Friday text support between sessions for real-time integration and nervous system support.
This work is designed for sustainable change—not quick fixes—so you have the time, support, and continuity needed to create lasting shifts in your relationship with money.
Investment: $2,495
Pay in full: $2,400 (save $95)
Payment plan: 6 automatic monthly payments of $415.83
If you feel hesitation, that’s okay. Pausing to sense what’s right for you is part of building a regulated relationship with money. There’s no urgency here—only an invitation to choose from self-honesty instead of fear.
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Is this work right for me if my income isn’t where I want it to be yet?
Yes. This work isn’t about how much you make—it’s about how your nervous system relates to money. Healing disempowering money patterns will create ease, clarity, and capacity which will help you grow your income. Whether you’re under-earning, rebuilding, or just starting to feel ready for more, this work meets you where you are.
What does “somatic” mean?
Somatic work focuses on the body and nervous system. Rather than just talking about change, we work with physical sensations, emotional responses, gentle movement, and relieving stress patterns held in the body. This allows change to happen at the level where habits, reactions, and money behaviors are actually formed.
Do I need to be “bad with money” to benefit from this?
No. Many clients earn well and appear financially successful. Money challenges are often driven by stress responses and survival patterns in the nervous system—not a lack of success, discipline, or skill. Perhaps you have plenty of money and manage it well, but have anxiety about spending it.
Do I need prior somatic experience?
No experience is needed. You don’t need to know how to “do” somatic work. Everything is guided, accessible, and paced to support safety and capacity.
How is this different from financial coaching or budgeting support?
Many clients need to restore safety and feel emotionally regulated before they can use practical financial tools. We focus on creating that safety and gently working toward money tracking and clarity. This work doesn’t focus on spreadsheets or financial strategy. We work with the nervous system patterns underneath money behaviors so practical tools become usable and sustainable.
Why do you only offer packages?
Somatic change happens through repetition, safety, and continuity. Packages provide the consistency needed for nervous system patterns to shift in a sustainable way, rather than relying on one-off sessions.
Do you offer refunds?
Because this is a relational, time-based container, refunds are not typically offered. We’ll ensure the structure feels aligned before starting.
What kind of results can I expect?
Results vary, but clients often experience reduced anxiety and indecision, less chaos and burnout, plus increased income, ease, and self-trust. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s freedom.
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